Falling for Bad Boys (or Girls)

It is amazing to Aunt Josie that many young professionals who are extremely cautious in their business relationships and dealings who exercise discretion, deliberation, and reason in how they conduct themselves professionally then turn around and become extremely reckless with their personal relationships.  They pick up a "bad" boy (or girl) who they know deep down inside of themselves will take them on a dramatic roller coaster to nowhere, if they are extremely lucky.  If unlucky, they are letting a person into their life who will bring negative karma, bad vibrations, and create serious problems for them.  So why would you treat the quest for your life mate less seriously or differently than your efforts to improve yourself professionally?