No matter what one's age is --from infant to old person--human beings need to feel secure. They need to feel secure in the love of the people who care for them or who are the closest to them. If you cannot make your child or elderly parent secure in your love, caring, and interest in their well-being, the child will not develop properly and the elder will not be able to relax and prosper.
Providing a partner with a sense of security, i.e., assurance that they are loved and cared for above everyone, is an intrinsic component to a happy, long-term, intimate relationship. No one wants to open up and share their most innermost thoughts and history with someone whom they do not trust. Allowing your partner to always know that you love them and proving by your actions that you are there for them gives them the freedom to truly reveal who they are and to enjoy the relationship to the maximum. Offering this type of security to your child will result in an emotionally strong, caring, confident young adult. Reassuring an elderly person that you will always be there gives them peace of mind and frees them from unnecessary worries about what will happen to them in the future. So, if you love someone, commit, and reassure them that you will be there for the long haul!
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